Although I should have realized this, sometimes you just make mistakes!
NEVER EVER USE GODADDY for HOSTING.
They had a cheap unlimited hosting and since this site is hosting video downloads I realized I needed good bandwidth.
But it was traded poor performance on the server, and very poor support that just point the finger back at me.
After disabling all of the wordpress plug-ins that they said could be causing the problem, I still would see PHP errors about 80% of the time when I visited this site. I suspect many of you did too.
I just changed the hosting company, hopefully I get better results this time. I want to be focusing on great Delphi content and not focusing on server issues.